Monday, December 6, 2010

That Mom Thing

So I have been a mom for almost 6 years now.  Oh how life has changed in 6 years.  I have gone from a carefree life with just Shad and I, working full-time as an RN and driving a compact car to a full-time job of raising kids, hauling them to school in my large SUV and being home full-time.  My entire life is different than it was before kids.   And now here I am just about to have kid number 3.

Today we were supposed to have a play date at Burgerking with one of Josh's classmates, but his mom was sick so she had to cancel.  I wondered what we were going to do for lunch as I had my heart set on burger and fries.  So off to McDonalds we went.  As we were sitting there I was starting to go into that mode.  The one where you wonder how you got to be such a mom.  The mode where you start to think you are such a dork now-a-days hanging out at McDonalds and watching Dora on the TV in the corner of the playland.  And then I turned and looked at my kids, eating their chicken nuggets.  That was when it hit me, hard.  I began to smile and had the urge to muss Josh's hair and pat Hannah on the bottom.  I am so blessed!  I get to stay home every day and raise my kids.  I get to spend every day possible with them, teaching them how to be people.  I get to come home and take care of my house and have a hot dinner on the table each night for my amazing husband to enjoy.  I am the one who sets the tone for our household.  I have the most important job in the world!

Yes, I do miss working at the hospital and taking care of patients.  And I don't think there is anything wrong with moms working outside of the home.  But, oh how happy I am that I get the option to stay home with my kids.  I love our mundane days:  the morning routine, school, the lunchtime routine, quiet time, snack time, dinner time and bed time.  I know that this time is flying by and I will look back very soon and wonder where the time went.  I thank God that He has given me the opportunity to do this, the full-time at home mom thing.  And in a couple of months I get the privilege to add another member to our family.  Oh how much more fun our trips to McDonalds will be.
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